1. You’re too sexy to die
2. You haven’t left your country yet
3. You haven’t seen the latest episode of One Piece

4. You haven’t gone on that trip yet
5. You haven’t seen your favourite artist in concert
6. You’re yet to tell that person how much you love them. Yes! That person you’re thinking of as you read this right now!
7. You’re yet to make love to and with the love of your life
8. You haven’t kissed your crush yet
9. You haven’t avenged your enemies. Are you really going to let them win?
10. Are really going to go without watching the new upcoming episode of that TV show you like?
11. You’re yet to have your first Hollywood wax. P.S it hurts but it’s so worth it!
12. You’re too beautiful to die, yes even with your imperfectly perfect imperfections
13. You’re yet to experience true love, the love you truly desire & deserve
14. You’re yet to make your first million
15. You haven’t gotten your dream car yet (Audi R8 V10 (2023), I am coming for you)

16. Your much anticipated package is enroute. Did you forget?
17. You’re yet to try that one cuisine. Personally, I really want to try real Mexican food
18. You’re yet to take a selfie on the Burj Khalifa (to be honest this one is for me 🤭)
19. You haven’t danced with someone who loves you yet. Don’t you wanna feel the ʰᵉᵃᵗ with somebody?
20. You’re yet experience to experience a girls or boys trip
21. Are you really going to let trump out live you. DONALD TRUMP? Come on man
22. Have listened to Claude Debussy’s third movement of his Suite bergamasque ”Clair De Lune” ? Listen and get lost in wonder. I promise it’s worth it
23. Your siblings will take all your clothes. Personally, I wouldn’t have it
24. The beauty of life is that it gets easier with time. It’s hard to see in the moment but please hold on an extra day
25. Spite. As much as I promote love, and how love is a driving force well so is hate. Live out of spite.
26. A hopeless romantic never loses hope.
27. Nothing in life is guaranteed apart from death. You and I WILL die anyways so why are you rushing? Back of the line bucko! Now live your life first
28. You are important
29. You can’t leave before seeing a free Palestine. Now repeat after me. FROM THE RIVER TO THE SEA PALESTINE WILL BE FREE !!!
30. Your pets will be sad and will consistently look out for you
31. You haven’t met the best version of yourself yet
32. The beautiful sky, sea and flowers

33. Dying after one university degree? ONLY ONE? I’m African, baby we don’t do that over here, you better face your books. Don’t get me mad!
34. You haven’t finished reading your holy book. Your challenge is to read at least one more page today
35. You swore you’d rewatch your favourite show again today
36. Your room is messy. Let’s refocus. Silly right? yeah let’s refocus
37. You deserve to have a good life
38. All those Pinterest mood boards for nothing?
39. Your inner child needs you to stay 
40. Eventually the sky will clear after the storm so why not wait a while? 
41. Have you visited my home country yet? Zambia? Yeah let’s get to saving those coins and make that trip to Lusaka! Where are you from? Maybe I can visit your home too.
42. Isn’t that new video game you’ve been waiting on coming out in a couple of weeks?
43. You’re going to let a zionist out live you? Bit embarrassing init 
44. You haven’t seen yourself in a wedding dress yet 
45. You haven’t seen yourself in your wedding suit yet 

46. The moon. She needs you to tell her how beautiful she is 
47. Hearing “I love you” and smiling feeling your heart flatter. Won’t you miss that? 
48. Have you been to a trampoline park? I don’t care that you are 45, let’s book that trip!
49. Watching your scars fade as you heal. It’s an incredible reminder of how strong you are
50. The flowers in your garden are still blossoming
51. Your beard is still coming through
52. You hair is almost at the length you’ve been wanting
53. Don’t you have some packages to return first ?
54. You’re yet to find out more information on the ocean. Only 5% have been explored, surely it’s worth waiting a while for
55. Your business is about to take off
56. You’ve made your first million great. Let’s get to two million, that’s right! Get your money up and not your funny up!

57. You’ve still got so much growing to do
58. All that money saved up for nothing? At least spend it
59. The love you want is out there because it’s within you and you are so full of it
60. The children you’ve been wanting won’t get to have you. All those names in your notes app gone to waste? 
61. Didn’t you want to be the single rich auntie or uncle to your nieces and nephews? Now they will be stuck with their broke parents. Please save them
62. You deserve to be experience nirvana 
63. Your bare feet haven’t touched the grass in so long 
64. You haven’t gotten your driving license yet, at least get the experience of freedom with a car
65. You haven’t visited a nude beach yet (neither have I but I heard it’s fun)
66. You haven’t explored the arts yet from cinema to literature to music etc
67. You’re so close to mastering that instrument you’ve been practising
68. You promised to see your bestfriend walk down the aisle 
69. You’ve only got a few pages of that book left
70. You’ve studied so much harder this time round. You’re guaranteed to pass 
71. Dying? Before owning a rolly (Rolex) ?
72. A change of environment would be beneficial 
73. You can’t enjoy your parents money if you’re dead
74. You can’t enjoy your siblings money if you’re dead
75. Have you ever listened to AmaPiano? Go listen to this song called ”eMcimbini’‘

76. Your new meds are coming soon and you’ll feel so much better
77. As cliche as this sounds, give it another day and if tomorrow isn’t better, we’ll try again
78. You’ll be graduating soon, at least get that out of the way at least
79. You’re not a failure, it’s okay to start over. Take a breather, not your last breath
80. So you believe in God…tell God everything and I mean anything and everything be angry, shout if you must. I promise he’s listening
81. You deserve happiness too
82. You can always retake that test. It sucks now but take some time off and try again
83. What’s yours will never miss you even if it’s high above the mountains or deep in the valley
84. Surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are and not what or who they think you should be
85. Flying cars are yet to be invented; they will be in a couple of months or a year from now
86. There’s still so much technology to be made. What? You think the iPhone and Androids are where we stop? Let’s wait and see what’s next
87. The world deserves to experience your kindness
88. You’re yet to try that new receipe

89. You’re the funniest person in your friendship group
90. With proper care your health will improve with time …mine did.
91. You deserve to know what it’s like to feel seen and heard
92. If it can happen to others it can happen to you too. Yes the contentment you desire will reach you, if only you wait a while
93. You get to appreciate the beauty in others additionally yours
94. You’re yet to attend the Olympics live
95. When was the last time you went to the zoo or aquarium ?
96. You promised you’d stay so please stay
97. You’re so much closer to your goals than you think
98. Stay for yourself – Prove to yourself that you got this even through these feelings you’re experiencing
99. Your beauty will save the world
100. Because I would miss you. You leaving would hurt and break my heart so please stay with me.

Having suicidal feelings, ideation, thoughts is something that happens to many people and unfortunately we lose thousands of people to suicide every year. Sometimes you need an unserious reason to not go through with it, even if it’s as silly you not wanting to do it because you have that one tub of ice-cream left.

Life is hard, unpredictable at times scary but believe me when I say, your life is so worth it. You deserve to feel seen, heard and understood and loved. You are not alone and you will never be alone so please hold on an extra day. Please Stay.

WordsByMul has been recognised as the 104th mental health blog to be viewed across the globe according to FeedSpot. Thank you for taking time to read my blog(s) and I hope you soon find another reason to smile. – Mulenga Chola